#30BBM Day 3

Your Task: Identify Your Ideal Self

What is my ideal self like? 

Traits would I possess? I would be patient, caring, loving. Motivated and full of energy and life. I would be someone people liked being around. I would be fun loving, a little carefree, but still have everything done. I would be healthy and dedicated to creating a healthy life for me and my family, I would be DEDICATED. I would exude energy and light, and be like the perfect earth mother. 

I would be non-judgemental! accepting peoples personality and accepting that I deem as the right conduct in a situation is what "I" would like, not everyone. 

I would be elegant, well spoken (no f or c-bombs here my friend) and just a little bit funky, saying yes to the odd leather jacket and skin tight jeans. I would also be willing to drop all the graces for a day of fun with hubby camping, hiking, or trailbike riding. 

Gosh I think I want to much. I think mainly I want to be the best person I can be, kind, generous and loving, but making sure I include me in all of that. 

I would rate this as a 10/10 for my ideal self. 

Small steps today that can work towards this.

Stop swearing. (that might just do me in)

learn to breathe, take my time, think about my reactions

enjoy a bit of life

My future

Ok so I have been spending the last few weeks trying to figure out and make a plan of what I want to do with my life. I have so many ideas, so many things that I want to accomplish.

Ideas:

Psychology
Life Coaching
Writer
Editor
Crafty Mum extraordinaire
PR / Management
Marketing
Etiquette/ Deportment Classes/training
Web design/Graphic design
Celebrant
Photography

How do i figure it out? I want to be interested when I go to work. Motivated to do something. How can I get good at something fast so that I can get away from being a bookkeeper? I hate doing what Im doing. Not just a little bit, but I have no motivation or want to keep doing this for another year. How can I transfer my skills into something else, even just for the meantime?

Day 6-8

Ok so Ive been slack, I blame my gorgeous hubby and his campaigning. I have not had access to a comp for awhile. Well not long enough to do some posting.
So onto Day 6
My favorite Superhero...why?
Well I think its pretty self explanatory from the name of my blog
Picture is from sodahead.com

I want to be Superwoman. I think its the Capricorn in me, the perfectionist. I want it all. I want the perfect home, my gorgeous hubby, kiddies and a great job. I want people to look at me and want what I have. I grew up with nothing, I had people thinking I had the 'perfect' family, but it masked what was really underneath. I want to create it now.
Day 7 - The person/ thing that has the biggest impact on my life.
This is a bit of an out there one for me. Growing up I lived with a non practising catholic family, who I can honestly say never really looked outside the norm, well except for Aliens. (my mum was obsessed thanks to Xfiles). But I for some reason found this liking of Buddha and what he represented. By no means was I ever as disciplined as his followers, but it struck a chord. Because of him, I learnt to not  go with the flow, but to make my own path. Yes it is rocky, I make lots of mistakes, but they are of my choosing.
pic by mobileappy.com

Day 8 - Short Term goals for the month - why

Ok, well this is a pretty easy one, my goals for October....(might I just say Im a list/goal maker, I redo them daily)

1. Gym/Exercise 3 x per week

2.  Not buy takeaway more than 3 x for dinners

3. Eat at the kitchen table

As you can probably tell, my life revolves around losing weight. I need to, Im in baby making mode. I need all the help I can get!

Well thats the end of 3 days...see you in a few more