So far meh!

I really hate to say this but sometimes I really get over my husband. I love him to bits but his moods are rediculous. And I don't say this believing I am perfect, or with out just a thin thought of it. When we have a house full of people tip-toeing around because he's in a mood over fuck all, there is a problem. His mother left a few days a go and let him know that he is too much like his father. I thought that maybe it had sunk in, but every day we are having the same issue. Him all of a sudden in a foul mood over the stupidest of things. New Years day is was because his shoulder was sore, so the world copped it. Yesterday who knows why, today because he feel shit about the house, so everyone else has to feel like shit. Its really not fair, and not fair that we have to live like this. I hate the fact that he has bipolar and he uses it as an excuse. I hate that he goes to see a counsellor and doesnt like that they tell him that he is being irrational, so he won't go back. I hate that he thinks its ok to keep going like this. Telling me every few weeks that he knows he fucks up but promises to fix it, then never does. Each time saying it will be different. Don't get me wrong, my husband can be fantastic, super fun and very loving. But I am sick to death of these moods. I hate having to worry about what he is going to say and who he is going to offend. let alone just having to live with it. He makes me feel like crap. His tirade this morning was the kitchen, he wanted it spotless. So he got in and did it. He then told me that he is taking over keeping the kitchen clean because he wants it perfect. This is the same man who will leave half eaten food, crumbs, dirty dishes anywhere he eats (and he eats anywhere) until I get the shits and eventually pick them up. He then goes on about other things that are dirty. He doesnt do any washing, cleans up only when it a spit or if I nag. And then has days like this. Im just over his drama and I dont know how to get him to snap out of it. He is so judgemental, narrow minded and just rude, and its starting to really piss me off.